Cashew Chicken Anyone?

Remember how I am not a cook? Remember how even the thought of cooking stresses me out? Well I have recently been inspired to give this whole cooking thing another go! Broc was out of town again this week for a few nights and I decided to take that opportunity to experiment! No worries! I would never experiment alone! Not when it comes to cooking! Instead I invited my sweet neighbor Emily over and a friend from the ward Amy for a night of cooking and talking and appreciating our womenly desires to be homemakers! Well long story short...we started with some raw chicken, cashews, onions that made us cry and chopped veggies but ended with a delectable dish of cashew chicken!

I know what you are all thinking! It doesn't even look that good but I will have you know that is a picture of the leftovers I saved for Broc and he happened to love it! So much so that I am attempting to make it again by myself! Huge! I know! :)

Well I am proud to say that these lovely ladies and I have decided that it is worth a monthly rendezvous to get together and attempt to make something yummy! We have planned out next cooking escapades for December 20th so more food posts to come! Thanks Emily and Amy for making my Monday night a blast and for putting up with my slow cooking tendencies! Here is to our monthly dinner group! We will be domestic goddesses soon enough!



P.S. Next time I will remember before we have eaten to take a better picture of our gourmet meal! Promise!

My mom is cooler than your mom!

Remember when I wrote this about my mom finishing the Bar exam? Well just to let you know when I said finished I meant it!

On Friday my dear mother found out some of the best news ever! SHE PASSED THE NEW YORK BAR EXAM! This means my mom is a true, blue New York City attorney! So for all those New Yorkers needing a lawyer never fear! My mom is here to save the day!

I just couldn't help but brag for a few minutes about my amazing mother because we are so dang proud of all her hard work! About 3 years ago she got accepted into Cardozo Law School and she never looked back once! She worked hard, studied harder and survived the Law library time and time again! Finally all that hard work has payed off because she is done for good!

Mom, hope you know how much I look up to you and admire your hard work! If I can be half the woman you are in my life-time I will be happy! Thanks for being so dedicated and way to be the smartest lawyer I know! I really think it is true...you mom are cooler than any other mom I know! LOVE YOU!

P.S. I think this is going to be the best Thanksgiving ever because we will finally have our mother back in all her glory! No more books! No more library study dates! No more late nights of reading! Instead we will all be together playing games, eating yummy food, singing songs around the piano, watching movies! Back to the good old days at last! I know what I am going to say I am thankful for this year...that my mom passed the Bar Exam with flying colors!

Happy Birthday Broc!

So I know this post is a little belated! But I just needed to let my Brocy boy know how much I love him and how happy I am we could celebrate another birthday of his together! Broc turned 26 years old last Friday and we have been having a party ever since! Now do not be fooled by that piece of cake up above! I know you all are probably thinking, "How sweet! She baked him a cake for his bday!" Well I will have you know that is not just any normal cake! That cake does not come from a box! That is right folks! I made that cake frosting and all from scratch! A true homemade cake for the birthday boy! So when I say we have been partying ever since I am not kidding we have been in cake heaven this past week!

Because I happen to be the world's most amazing wife I went above and beyond the call of duty this year! Not only did I make a delicious homemade chocolate cake for the birthday boy but I got him a gift he cannot deny being his all time favorite! The pure look of joy on his face should be enough to let you know how much this gift will be appreciated! I got Broc the very first season of Matlock! For those of you who do not know what Matlock is just go here and please become a fan! Needless to say it is going to be hard to top this birthday next year! (And he happens to be sporting the US Open shirt my parents sent him for his bday!)



So I must say that not only was Broc spoiled on his bday but I was spoiled on his bday too! On his day of birth in the mail arrived an extremely belated wedding gift! Thank you to the Rolapps for our most favorite newly-wed salad ever! In case you cannot tell that is money filling a nice porcelain salad bowl! Like I said we were both spoiled!



I guess you could say it was the birthdays of all birthdays! Thanks for being my husband Broc and for putting up with all my crazyhood! You deserved every bit of spoiling I could give on your special day! Love you!

To Mexico And Back Again!

Well so much has happened in these past few weeks and I haven't even had a moment to update the blog! So here I am attempting to do just that! We have literally been to Mexico and back again! For the past few years it has been grandpa VandeMerwe's dream to take his whole family on a cruise! Well the time finally came and we are so glad that we could both slip away from our busy lives for a moment and enjoy some good old family time!

The cruise took us down to Cabo San Lucas and Ensenada Mexico so it was quite the adventure! The following are just a few of many pictures taken to capture the wonderful moments we had with family! VandeMerwe side how we love you so!

One night for dinner we got to sit with Broc's family! All us Buttars together at last! We love you family! (P.S. This was the same night Broc ordered 3 entrees of lobster tail and shrimp! The boy was shameless!)


Just Grandpa VandeMerwe walking with lots of the grand kids! We sure love him and are grateful for all the sacrifice he has made on our behalf!


Pharaoh's palace is where we went to watch our shows every night! Us gals just being silly and pretending to be Egyptian! We sure had fun!


Even though we were on a cruise to Mexico when the wind got blowing it sure did get cold! We were so happy to discover the first day of the cruise a hot chocolate dispenser! Yum! Didn't that hit the spot from time to time!


This was the night we got to eat dinner with grandma and grandpa! We sure had fun spending precious time with them! Memories that we will never forget!


After some shopping in Ensenada Whitney and I had to show off our great buys! Mexican dresses to bring home! Don't mind the fact that my white belt is actually off the bath robes in our room! I had to make it work! ;)


Almost the whole group together playing some games late into the night! Scrabble anyone? What about dominoes?


The ship even had a mini golf course so obviously we had to hit it up! I'll have you know that Abby, Sammy and I all got holes in one during this round! Way to go girlies! Let's just say it was an interesting game of golf on a rocking boat!


We certainly did have fun in the Cabo sun!


This picture was taken on lovers beach! Little did we know when we got aboard the water taxi that there would be no dock on the other side! To make it ashore we had to jump out of the boat and quickly run to the sand before the tide pulled us in! Hence the soaking shorts and shirt! But the beach was beautiful and for sure worth the wet clothes! We had a blast!


One night we all piled into our room for a Brian Reagan debut! We thought the top bunk might break from all the boys on it but some how the bed survived while we had a lot of great laughs along the way!


At karaoke with some of the family! Only Ally and Uncle Rob were brave enough to get up there! It was fun to watch the other singers though! Some had talent and some certainly did not!


All in all we were certainly not ready to come home by the end of the trip! We love you grandpa VandeMerwe and cannot thank you enough for making this trip possible! May God be with you til we meet again!

Oh Conference...How We LOVE You!

Well last weekend we were privileged to watch conference! Normally we would go home and be with family on a weekend like this but with upcoming events and not much time we decided to brave the weekend on our own!

Now for most conference watchers this may not seem like that big of a deal! But for the Buttars family it meant a big deal! Since we are cheap...correction I am cheap...and we have not yet signed up for internet (they want to charge us 30 bucks a month! NO THANK YOU!) or cable for that matter we were at a loss for how to watch beloved conference!

For those of you who are not members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, Conference weekend is a time where we hear messages from our Prophet and other church leaders! They broadcast the sessions (2 on Saturday and 2 on Sunday) all over the world! Members can tune in and watch online, on TV, on the radio etc. To watch some conference talks click here!

Well with pretty much zero options besides driving all the way to the stake center for each session which also meant cutting into my precious homework time in between session on Saturday, we had to take measures into our own hands! That is right everyone! Because we cannot connect to the internet from our apartment but we can access the network of our club house from the parking lot we decided this might be our best option! Broc and I snuggled up in the back of our lovely car, got connected to the internet network The Park at Arlington Ridge and watched all 8 hours of conference that way!

We viewed it as a wonderful missionary opportunity because most of the time we had the windows down and yes there were certainly people walking around! We decided if any one asked we would not turn down the opportunity to invite them to watch along!

Although we didn't have anyone brave enough to ask us what exactly we were doing...Broc and I had a great time watching the Prophet of the Lord in our little car! Back seats pushed up all the way, laptop in the middle, a blanket up to block the sun, some snacks to get us through and we were all set! Now if that's not dedication I don't know what is!

Topher!

The little red ford that I learned to drive in, my beloved Topher has officially died! That car survived 3 teenage drivers...barely! That was the car I felt most comfortable in and now poor little Topher has given up the ghost!

That little car and I have some pretty great memories! I remember when Carissa was first driving him and we had to come up with a name! Topher just seemed to fit and so it was! I remember when I finally learned to drive, running into the fire hydrant before I even got my license and destroying the whole side of my beautiful car! That bent up side stayed with me always, a constant reminder to drive safe! I remember making tape after tape since there was no CD player! The day the eject button broke was the day I was forced to listen to my Sunday tape over and over again because that's the tape that got stuck inside!

I remember driving across the country in that little car hoping that we would make it to Utah in one piece! Carissa and I had so much fun but unfortunately we did bust...we were afraid it was the transmission and that we would be stranded in the middle of Iowa! Well Topher pulled through and thank goodness we made it to Utah!



I remember the times Topher got decorated for my birthday and the times I would blast the music loud with the windows down thinking I was the luckiest girl alive! I remember the early morning drives to seminary and my special parking spot at school! Even though Topher has not been my car for a while (he has been passed on down to the next teenager, Drewbie) I will certainly miss that little red Ford I learned to love so much! When Drew texted me to say he thought Topher was dead I was hopeful he would pull through again! This time he wasn't quite as lucky! May you rest in peace my little Topher and remember how much I truly loved you!

BIG Drum Roll Please....

I passed the test! I am a true-blue, through and through, tough and strong, able to handle it all, been there, done that, worlds most accomplished wife because I am a survivor! That is right everyone! I survived an entire week all alone in my apartment while my husband was away at training for work!

Now let me set the record straight! Yes Broc and I have been separated before! He interviewed various places our last semester at BYU which meant he was out and about traveling the world without me! Also, when my lovely mother graduated from law school only I was able to come home for the celebration! So yes we have spent nights apart before but this time I passed the real test! All those other times I had dear friends to call upon or family to be with and therefore was never truly alone! Well last Sunday I dropped Broc off at the airport and he didn't come home until Friday night! YIKES!

That's right folks! I held down the fort all by myself for 5 whole nights! For some this may seem silly but for me it really was a victory! Not going to lie...getting him back on Friday night was even more of a victory but at least I know I am tough enough to do it now! So here's to all those years of being a scaredy-cat! I am done being a chicken! I have moved on to bigger and better things! Thanks Broc for coming home to an even better wife! I love you!



And p.s...in case you can't tell in the picture I am holding him so tight he won't be going anywhere anytime soon! Just because I'm not a chicken anymore doesn't mean I'll be asking for him to go on business trips in the near future! ;)